Fr. Aaron Wessman
Graduated May 2012
Glenmary Home Missioners
Hometown: Cokato, MN
What attracted you to the priesthood?
I have almost always been seeking to
understand more deeply myself in relationship to loving others and
God, and being loved by others and God. For me, I found that the
best way to fully pursue this quest, and at least to get a glimpse
of those things I seek, was to become a priest.
I found that priesthood would
provide me with the greatest chance to deepen my relationship with
God through Christ and allow me the opportunity to love broadly, by
loving the Body of Christ. As I have pursued this call, I have
always felt that I was fully alive and growing toward my fullest
potential to be a loving human being.
Who influenced you to begin study for the priesthood?
When I was studying mathematics at
St. John’s University, I cleaned the theology department to help
pay for tuition. While doing so, I met a Glenmary priest, Fr. Jerry
Dorn, who was on sabbatical at that time. This was a significant
moment in my faith journey: I was volunteering in several churches,
taking part in Bible studies, and beginning to ask many important
questions about life, love, faith, forgiveness and God.
I was able to cultivate a wonderful
relationship with Fr. Jerry that allowed me to grow even more in my
own self-understanding, especially in relationship to the important
questions I was asking. My relationship with Fr. Jerry was so
significant that I started to think that perhaps I was possibly
attracted to his lifestyle as a priest, and that maybe God was
calling me to that lifestyle.
What were you doing before you came to the seminary?
Before I entered the seminary, I had
just finished up my undergraduate work in mathematics and secondary
education. Feeling a call to ministry and not yet sure I could
fulfill that call in the priesthood, I spent a year working as a
youth minister in my hometown. Several months into my experience as
a youth minister, I realized that my heart had still not found its
home, so to speak, and that God was continuing to ask me to take a
deeper look at the priesthood.
Favorite saint and why?
St. Francis Xavier for his
missionary zeal, St. Paul for his ability to go to where God was
calling him without counting the cost, St. Ignatius for his
invaluable spirituality, and St. Maximilian Kolbe for his
commitment to loving intensely even in the midst of suffering and
Favorite Scripture verse and why?
Two scripture verses are significant
to me right now. The first is John 10:10. Here, Jesus is telling
all people that He has come to give life abundantly. The second is
John 6:68. Here, Peter answers Jesus’ question of whether he and
the disciples will also leave because of the difficulty of Christ’s
teaching and the faith required to accept it. Peter mightily
responds, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal
I believe deeply in my heart and
have witnessed, not only in my life but in the lives of others,
that there is a longing in the heart of all of humanity for
completion, wholeness, love—abundant life. For me, this abundant
life—the fullness of love—is found in Christ Jesus, and especially
in the Eucharist. Life then, for me, is about drawing closer to
Christ and to His people in love, and always keeping my eyes set on
heaven for the day when Jesus will truly be all in all.
I love to read, write poetry, spend
time in nature, spend time with my friends, travel, watch movies,
be with my family, participate in athletics, listen to and play
music, and experience different cultures, food and people.
What aspect of seminary has been the most rewarding?
The friendships that I have made
throughout my time in the seminary have been the most rewarding
thing to me. It has also been so rewarding to be in an environment
where people are committed to help me grow as a human being and
deepen my relationship with Christ.
What aspect of seminary life has been the most
Finding balance amid the great
tensions of life, faith and love has been terribly challenging.
Also, learning to be peaceful and live with the grey matter and
ambiguity of life, the complexity of faith and of humanity, the
unfathomable mysteries of God, and both the strengths and
weaknesses that make up who I am has been very challenging.
Always let my journey of faith be
shaped like the cross: vertically connected to God through Jesus
Christ and in the Spirit, but also horizontally connected to
humanity through the fullness of my own humanity.