A Reflection inspired by Brogan, my 17-year-old son
This shift in perspective over the past year started after Brogan and I had a meaningful conversation about Benedictine life, a way of living rooted in prayer, work, and community. The Benedictine motto Ora et Labora (pray and work) highlights the sacredness of everyday tasks and the presence of God in the ordinary. That conversation planted a seed in Brogan’s heart, and I have watched it quietly grow in the way he lives.
Now, I won’t pretend he’s perfect! Yes, his father and I do have to ask him to do his chores. But what’s changed is his attitude. There is a growing sense of purpose in the way he approaches even the most mundane tasks: rotating bee frames in our backyard hives, sorting the trash to make sure recyclables are properly separated, and helping around the house. These aren’t headline-worthy actions, but they are deeply meaningful. They reflect a heart that is attentive, responsible, and quietly faithful.
As a Catholic mother, I have come to see these moments as sacred. They echo the life of Jesus, who spent most of His earthly years in the quiet town of Nazareth, working as a carpenter and living in obedience to His parents. Scripture reminds us: “Whatever you do, do it from the heart, as for the Lord and not for others” Colossians 3:23. This verse beautifully reflects the core of Brogan’s actions. He might not realize it, but in how he cares for the bees or sorts the recycling, he is living out his faith. He is honoring creation, practicing stewardship, and expressing love through service.
In our Catholic tradition, saints like St. Thérèse of Lisieux promoted the “Little Way” of doing small things with great love. Brogan’s quiet diligence reflects that spirituality in a modern way. It reminds us that holiness isn’t just for the extraordinary; it’s found in everyday life.
Let us celebrate the ordinary, everyday. Let us teach our children and remind ourselves that God is present in the small, faithful acts of daily life. Because sometimes, the most extraordinary thing we can do is simply remain faithful in the ordinary.